First light the candle let it burn for about 10 seconds then hold your hand up to the sky but your hand must look like it's holding an invisible ball then say.OH! Energy of the sky come into my hand so that I may bend this flame.Then bring your hand down like you are going to throw a ball ( hand must be a few cm apart) the minute your hand is stretched out towards the flame keep your fingers stretched out straight.The flame should bend until you move your hand but don't make so much wind that the flame goes out just enough to bend the flame.
Just go to google and type in 'fire spells', not an exciting way to find spells (personally I prefer books) but there is quite a few there, some you may find are 'locked' until you actually join the website though
Spells do not bend the fire if u are not a fire elementalist you b best to leave the fire alone. It is because of pplz that no nothing of what they are doing that we wiccans are all hated. If you want advise on it I can tell you that light thw candle and meditate use ur thoughts to manipulate the candle do not try an control something so free.
blessed be
Aye, I don't practice much of the magick manipulation of fire, but I know I can make a flame dance any way I want with my energy. I surround a flame with my energy, and use my hands to shift the flame around as I like. It takes major concentration and control of energy.