losing control and hurting the ones i love ... *looks away*

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Inu, Aloneness, both of those fears are things we deal with daily in our lives, vampiric or otherwise, more so for vampires though where losing control is concerned, though. Inu, my only suggestion is to never stop loving, no matter the hurt. If you seal up your heart and turn cold, you lose that joy that comes with feeling love. And it'll only hurt you more in the end. Keep loving, learn to deal with the pain as it comes because there will always be pain, and keep on being who you are. Aloneness, my suggestion to you is to not fear the loss of control, because if you hold onto control too much you will lose it so much easier. When you cage a beast it will eventually lash out on its own, whether you want it to or not, but if you let it out of its cage to experience the joy of the wild then it will be much more complacent when you wish to put it back in its cage.

As for me, my simplest fear is drowning, and my mother gave me a phobia of wasps, and I recently found out that I'm slightly allergic to them.

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omg inu i have the same problem!!!!! i fear that sooo much!!!

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"do you want me to sing for you? i ll sing to you all night if it will keep the bad dreams away..."

"and then the lion fell in love with the lamb..."

and as for u tobias... DONT WORRY!!! I WILL NEVER LET U DROWN!!!! I LL SAVE YOU BEFORE YOU EVER DO!!! i love you!!! lol ^_^

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"do you want me to sing for you? i ll sing to you all night if it will keep the bad dreams away..."

"and then the lion fell in love with the lamb..."

Well I would be scared of losing a loved one. But what really scares me are clowns. Since I was young, never did like them. It's not a joke, even though I may laugh about it from time to time. I also never did like spiders. I live more in the country, so there's always some sort of creature lurking in the house or outside. That's nature for you.

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I am not evil
I have the heart of a young girl
In a jar on my desk

YUS Tobias for similar fear of drowning. It's an awful thought, being alive and screaming on the inside but having a fear of opening your lungs to let for the noise because they'll fill up with water and suffocate you. Even though inside you'd know the inevitable suffocation was coming, anyways. Sigh.


Other than that... I fear Christmas 2012. End of the mayan calender, supposed end of the world. Right before my birthday, too.

Im sorry your in such a poor mood bex.

Tobias, Sweetheart. One of my teachers gave me a fear of spiders. He said,
"Every spider in the WORLD is poisionous." I never used to be afraid of spiders
until he said that. NOW, I am scared to DEATH of them.

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Evil_Kitty666

Vampire, Vixen, Erotic Temptress and Demon Goddess.

"I made it through the wilderness. Somehow I made it though. Didn't know how lost I was until I found you. I
was beat, incomplete I'd been had, I was sad and blue, but you made me feel shiny and new.

-Madonna, Like A Virgin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EUpe...eature=related

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I am not evil
I have the heart of a young girl
In a jar on my desk