seriously...this is driving me insane...why am i still crying while he's off dating? i dont get it!

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curiosity killed the cat you know....
~Ky~

It's because women are naturally more emotional than men, yet I don't know your situation so I can't give any sound advice to you, my dear. I know a man should be loyal and dedicated to his chosen mate, but anyone should be free to make their own choice of life partner, and that should they choose wrong should not be forced to remain in a relationship should they not want it. Although, admittedly this should be done in a way to minimize any hurt feelings, but to just jump into a relationship with barely and foreknowledge of someone, you're asking for chaos and trouble.

If you'd like, hun, you can PM me with what happened and I can try and give you more sound advice.

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Tobias is right. Women are more emotional than men. It's just the way the gods made us. I always get emotional, especially when I feel like someone has
done me wrong. I cry, and get mad, and scream. But a few days later, I'm over it. And I'm back to my cheerful self.

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Seduction is the greatest power we possess.

Hunni!We are more emotional than the men are and we tend to get attatched easier!
The only guys ive met that have the same level of emotions as me are all gay!
It will be okay!!You'll feel like crap for a while!But then you'll realize that you can do wayy better!!
Good luck hunni!

i think it happens because women invest much more time in it than most men , just think about how many hours a woman prepares for a date , i mean clothes , hair , cosmetics , and all that ..having him her mind all that time , while the man only thinks about her when she's in front of him LOL
that's why when they finally met the man is usually more intense than the woman
finally the amount of falling is directly proportional with the time the other occupies your mind

hellen you make much sense...i never thought of it that way...

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~Ky~

good to know , hope it helps

I think it possible for women that are less emotional.

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HAHAHA! Most men are just as emotionally attached to their gf as women are to their bf.
I just think some men (not myself, i tend to like being single more than in a relationsship) are depend on having a gf, that is why they date quicker after breaking up than some women do.

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^Mm, I agree, I know a load of guys who are super-emotional. Since childhood, boys are meant to be the 'tough' ones who shouldn't cry, because it shows weakness. But I think it's the opposite - expressing your feelings is alot harder than keeping it bottled up. That's why guys probably seem less fased by it. But i'm no relationship psychologist, so I don't really know. ^___^ It sucks, though, feeling upset about boyfriends.