As said a hundred times, our emotional capacity unfortunately ensures we are more 'involved' than the male partners, trobule is it makes it worse when your dating another female because you either get 2 emoinoally attached/intense personalities over a short period of time or you get a symbolic male/female relationship wherein one party is somewhat more detached than the other.

I ould argue that men are involved, trouble is by their nature they don't show it or appear to show it and their habitual needs unfortunately step over those emotional thoughts until it is too late - blame their brain (it's usually in their pants)

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Vix

"Now, you must go on a bit longer as a creature of this earth. Only until we have left behind those who would destroy us"

Not necessarily Lovalia. I think it depends on the person and their environment. I can speak for myself. If my wife could speak for me here she would tell you I'm a vary loving, gentle, but passionate man. I've been married 17 yrs and we still talk baby talk to each other.

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Savage

In life you are in the mist of death

maybe guys also know that it is not good for your to be sad for the next year, just because he's got dumped.

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From death we shall all rise.

Hate is the only cleanser to wash of blood from the enemy.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=2_YqT5kf640&feature=related

In my experiences, the guy falls harder.

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"Come out, come out..."

It has to do with parts of our brains. Girls have more thought patterns going through the emotions side of the brain whiles guys are centered around homones and instinct.