lol isn't all of this fun by default? I mean I know that the main reason my bf and I haven't had sex is 1 I'm technically only 15....but mentally and spiritually...that's a different story...but I'm also afraid that my sanity will entirely break because even though we haven't had sex, we fool around to a point where my sanity is hanging on by a thread. It's kind of bad because if my sanity breaks, my bf would have to deal with the killer demon in my head who would not take kindly to waking up naked...any advice from anyone?

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my dear I can say bluntly that as long as you play SAFE you'll be fine. You come to a breaking point STOP. When there are times that you're not sure if you can handle it then make sure nothing happen. You are the one in the drivers seat. So, take control. You are the only one that knows when to keep going, slow down, or not to start at all.

Telling you to wait or not to have sex will do no one any good. If it happens then you are the only one who knows if your ready. It will happen no matter what any one says. Your the only one that can say when it does or doesn't happen. So, the best advice is just always keep safe when you finally decide to.

If you are fooling around a lot then a good idea would be to keep a few things around incase it should suddenly happen.

As for the demon side of you, as I said before, "Your the one in the drivers seat. So, take control." You have the power to. Don't let your will weaken.

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Im reading here because the question what a vampire can do different because of the abilities you have is very interesting, but I was wonder (no offense Renuka) if you are 15, this is for people over 21.
But your question is fair, listen to Alexandria. I would say to you that if you play with fire you will get burn. Sometimes things can get out of control, even when you think you have it.

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is always the first to be touch'd by the thorns

Yes my dear yanima13 you are right. Being so young one shoiuld be very careful

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damn.
ive broken a few bed frames, box springs, and couches in my day, as well as fallen off stuff (beds, counters, couches) but jeez, u guys make me look timid!

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I am a very dominate being in general. I tend to subdue my wife mentally, but I'm not in to bending her to my will.

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We gladly feast on those who would subdue us."
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"Sic Gorgiamus Allos Subjectatos Nunc.
We gladly feast on those who would subdue us."
-Addams Family Credo

Using my martial arts has been of advantage when with a partner, and I find that certainly the 'primal' side of things comes out a lot more especially if I know the person is on the same wavelength as myself, energies just spike and its easy to relly go to different levels and experiences - obviously some people don't like it and I've found i'm respectful of that, I just try and 'introduce' little things to them instead

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"Now, you must go on a bit longer as a creature of this earth. Only until we have left behind those who would destroy us"

Well put Alexandira,

In addition, I would advise the use of 'safe words' or phrases where by if something you are experimenting with is not comfortable or you are feeling stressed or upset on saying that phrase or word everything stops and any game, situation or role being undertaken is stepped away from.

Your safety is paramount as is your confidence, Subs and Doms have a very strict relationship when it comes to safe words, otherwise their relationships would enver work the same goes for anyone else. )

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"Now, you must go on a bit longer as a creature of this earth. Only until we have left behind those who would destroy us"