Okay this is my problem......i have a boyfriend BUT he's in another state i'm in south carolina and he's in indana(sp?)......i love him but i'm afraid that he'll frind someone else and leave me high and dry with out a word to me. Now i'm not saying that if he did say that he found something he thought was better then me that i won't let him go. I can do that..it will hurt..but love isnot with out pain... my thing is has anyone ever had another state realationship? Did it come out okay?.....any ideas on how to deal with this?

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Yeah.. my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. And while it hasn't been the easiest, we were separated by a few states for about 6 months until he moved to Texas to join me again. And then when I was done with school we moved back home to TN.

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I had a relationship in another state. He died.

I aso had a relationship in another country. I broke it off.

That's all the relationships i've ever had so no. It did not turn out okay.

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well right now i am dating someone who is in another state too and he come to this forum. I really don't want to worry about that because then it becomes a problem. you can get like those people on tv and become obsessed and annoy the crap out of him so i would recommend that you stay calm and hope for the best!

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live simply. speak honestly. love completely.

When I tell my bf that I love him he either changes the topic or says I do too.

Why does he say I do too and why does he change the topic?

My guy friends say that he says I do too because hes mad or annoyed at me.
And they say he changes topic because he doesent feel the same way or doesent want to appear as "Mr. Sensitive"

I need help >_<

k i need help. i had a boyfriend who told a couple of my friends that he cheated on me but come to find out he really didn't, it was just to make me break up with him and he got his wish. And then he wanted to be friends so i said ok. A couple of weeks ago, my cousin said that the reason why he broke up with me was because I wouldn't "put my foot forward" (you girls probably know what i mean) and I couldn't believe I was having the conversation with my cousin. My cousin asked me if I would like to go out with him again and I said no. Then I get it from my ex that he can't believe that he broke up with me (he was high that's why). So now I'm confused. Is there any advice on this?

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Ouhh Onineko5253 , my bf died too 2 year ago :S and after that my relationships has not been good at all - i still miss my far gone bf - he was perfect for me.

lanawest, i don't think that you should be anything more with this boy but friends, if he was so childish to make you broke up with his just coz you didn't 'put your foot forward' then he's an *******. But that's just my opinion take your time baby and search for someone who will respect you and your choices

well okay a update see the guy i was talking about i met on this site.....We broke up......he broke me really really bad but it's been 2 mouths and i'm much better...i did find another that loves me more then he did...i hope that things are better and that the other will never use my number again....what kicked my ass is that he told be that he wanted all this stuff (marriage,kids, the whole set up) and i fell for it....he was the only guy that i even thought of ever having kids with and i was afraid that i'd never find another.....in a way i'm sure that my role in life is to watch others happy to be the one that everyone tells there happy stories and walk away som much more happer about themselves.......i know it sounds sad but that is just how things have fallen....to men i'm nothing but a toy that is to be played with and thrown away.....*sigh* i once was strong but now i'm lost......good luck to everyone else.....i hope all the best for you and for him and all the others that will brake me too.

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