i have one girl i can confide in always, she's my girl and i love her but how do i tell her who i really am? if she can tell me she's a psi then y is it that i can not bring my self to tell her? ughh i hate my own self created confusion.

It's very very hard to do it. I love my fiance with all of my heart, but I've learned to keep this secret so well I hid it from him unintentionally. Now he has found out, and he doesn't know what to think (more of because he was hurt that I didn't tel him earlier sort of thing, the fact that I hid something from him.) Now I have to find a way to sit him down and talk to him about everything (To those that thought I was going to talk to him yesterday/day before/whenever I said? I was, but then he had to take a trip to colorado to get the bastard from my rant away from me. So I STILL haven't sat him down yet .. )
I know he loves me no matter what I am, but I don't know how comfortable he is going to be with everything. He had offered me blood from wounds in the past, but never really thought why I wanted it. He just up and offered it to me because I was staring at it.
I don't know if he is willing to be my donor, and I know that he wouldn't accept me having a donor other than him, which means I either have to A: Try to lean myself even more to psi than sang and try not to ever think about blood or B: have a donor behind his back, which I am not willing to do unless I get much crazier with these withdrawals than I already am.

Believe me, it's a hard hard process. Whether your woman is psi along with you or not, you can't help but feel the way you do! We teach ourselves to be so hidden we almost fool ourselves I think at times.
Just try to relax, find a good time when you and her are sort of 'ebbing' together in my opinion (You guys are cycling energy and connecting amazingly) and just bring it up. Talk to her, tell her your reasons why you haven't been able to say anything, just confide in her. If it all starts to be awkward, then opt to talk about it another time, ask her to come to you when she feels ready to continue the conversation.

My girl is very complicated.... All of my freinds are normal as far as i can tell but my secret will be realeased tomorrow when at twilight i can come out and reveal my fangs, they might be shocked but too bad.
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The blood sits in a vial beckoning us to it, try to resist it but our senses will over come us.

Believe me, it's a hard hard process. Whether your woman is psi along with you or not, you can't help but feel the way you do! We teach ourselves to be so hidden we almost fool ourselves I think at times.



well im more sang then any thing and like i said, she's a psi, just like my ex. was, and well when i told her things were ok for a while and then it went sour, i love her and can't stand the thought of losing her. i guess im afraid of a repeat in my life. but thanks for talking it helps to finnally feel that i'm not alone.

Well, your lover should love you for who you are. I doubt that if she loves you it will damage your relationship. Talk to her about that, too, about that fear. Tell her how much you love her and how you don't want that information to tear you apart. She would rather know than never know, especially since she has already confided in you about her own (whether psi/sang/etc.) I think that your past relationship may have been damaged because either -she is a psi that thinks that sang are just idiots looking for attention, or -she didn't like the idea of being in a relationship with another vampire, it made her not feel as special and better in the relation. I do not know her, so I won't say these are true, but that is what I have seen go wrong in others' relationships. Either someone is lying and feeling high and mighty or they just don't believe. Psi and sang out there need to find ways to get along better

But anyhow, I still say talk to her about it. She really needs to know that, and it will get the stress off of your shoulders in the end.

thanks, i talked to her and i think it went ok, and as for the past relationship you were totally right, i thank you again for talking to me.

I'm glad that is going good for you now :3
See? Don't be so worried about these things, love is love and if they really care about you then it will not matter what you are or what you do.
You are very welcome, feel free to ask me/talk to me about anything else if you need it.

I'm still not sure on her exact feelings over it but i think things r going to work out between Chelsea and me, at least now there is no secrets.